Affairs

I sometimes hear from wives who are feeling horrible in several areas of their life and in their marriage after their husband cheats or has an affair. Often, one of the biggest issues that they face is that they do not feel truly loved. This can be true even if their husband is repeatedly expressing his love and his remorse. I heard from a wife who said, in part: "my husband had an affair two months ago. We are trying to heal, but no matter what he says or does, I doubt his love for me. I don't really feel...

Tina sighed and lamented the dark episode that has been her marriage for the past 10 months since she found out about the affair. Since that time she said we have both been trying to put the pieces of our marriage back together."The period before and after the time of Dan's fling had been very difficult to deal with and I have wished on many an occasion that I could simply erase the thoughts and memories of that time from my mind".If Tina's story sounds familiar to you and you feel like you have barely scraped through a horrific episode...

I sometimes hear from wives who have full knowledge of their husband's affair and they do not understand why he is still living with them as a married man. Often, they fully expect for him to leave and they are extremely confused when he doesn't. I heard from a wife who said: "I know for a fact that my husband is having an affair. I found out from his phone but I have also driven by the other woman's house and have seen his car. Once, I followed them and saw them kissing at stop lights. So there is no...

Any relationship is difficult and there will undoubtedly be potential problems at some point and infidelity may occur. These difficulties are even more exaggerated if you are in a long distance relationship.There are always signs that someone is cheating on you in a long distance relationship or may be about to cheat on you and the key is to watch out for these signs and act on them, however, it will be best if you have proof before you overreact and accuse your partner of cheating on you.1. Lying - Even if it's a little white lieIf your long distance...

Evolving social media is becoming infamous as a method to commit "virtual cheating" or to have an "emotional affair". Recent events have made it very public just how harmful this type of behavior can be.Social media can be very useful and Facebook alone is a good indicator of how extremely popular it is. It is a great asset to search out old friends, keep in touch with relatives or find others who share your interests. Many of us are also using social media to expand business opportunities and increase sales.For the most part, social networking is beneficial for those who...

I sometimes hear from people who are so angry at themselves for cheating or having an affair, that they have come to hate not only their actions, but they also hate themselves. I heard from a woman who said: "I cheated on my husband. It was the worst mistake I have ever made in my entire life and I spend every second of every day regretting it. My husband says he will try to forgive me and we are working on saving our marriage. I want that more than anything. The problem is that I am so angry at myself....

You look back on all the years of marriage that you have spent together and you think about all the events that you both have been through from the birth of your children to financial and personal difficulties, and as you reel in pain with the thoughts of the affair that has just happened, you wonder if this is it, and the death knell for your marriage has been sounded.This is a very common question that many people who have been emotionally injured by an affair ask themselves. Coping with the aftermath of an affair is emotionally one of the...